Questioning NFL hopefuls' sexuality out of bounds
Published: Saturday, March 2, 2013 at 3:00 a.m.
Last Modified: Saturday, March 2, 2013 at 11:06 p.m.
There is something fundamentally abhorrent about the NFL Scouting Combine, recently concluded. Coaches and team executives put prospects through all kinds of drills and ask all kinds of questions. They treat them like slaves.
The NFL slaves can’t decide which teams they will go to. They have no freedom of choice. True, differences exist between real slaves and NFL slaves. NFL slaves make a free choice to enter the draft in the first place. No one from Africa ever asked to become a slave and work on a Southern plantation. And NFL slaves make a ton of money, something real slaves never did.
But you get the point. There is a sense of owner and owned in the Combine.
This year, the sense of owner and owned got worse. As you’ve probably read, one player alleges one team asked about his sexual orientation. Listen to Colorado tight end Nick Kasa, who spoke to ESPN Radio: “They ask you like, ‘Do you have a girlfriend?’ ‘Are you married?’ ‘Do you like girls?’ Those kinds of things, and you know it was just kind of weird. But they would ask you with a straight face, and it’s a pretty weird experience altogether.”
Try to imagine the position Kasa was in when a team executive or executives allegedly asked if he likes girls — I’ll use the word “allegedly.” He wants to play in the NFL so he couldn’t tell them to take a hike, although that’s what they deserved. He had to answer or subtly deflect them, just a horrible position to be put in.
It’s also against the law. When I applied to be a columnist at The Press Democrat, no one asked if I like girls. They were not allowed to ask how old I was, if I was married, what church I attend or if I believe in zombies. Discrimination suits happen when interviews stray into personal interrogation.
But the editors at the PD sure wanted to know if I can write, if I can write on deadline without cracking up, if I can cover sports.
In other words, could I do my job? The only criteria for football coaches at the combine are, “Can this young man play football?” And, “Is he a solid enough citizen to reflect well on our organization?”
End of story.
All this probably started because of Notre Dame’s Manti Te’o, who conducted a yearlong relationship via email with a woman who turned out to be a man. Lots of people drew the conclusion he’s a homosexual, and Katie Couric had the bad taste to ask on television if he’s gay. Would someone please throw a pie in Katie Couric’s face?
Maybe some NFL teams heightened their awareness of homosexuality because of what happened with Te’o. I’m not saying they heightened their sensitivity or ability to accept human differences, merely their awareness.
I admit the Manti Te’o case was weird. But it wasn’t weird because he is or isn’t gay. It was weird because the whole story and how it played out and what really went on was, well, weird. As far as Te’o is concerned, we want to know one thing only. Can he play football at the NFL level?
Former Chicago Bears quarterback Jim Miller had this to say: “There are some religions that are just not going to accept a gay individual in the locker room. So now, are you as an organization going to bring that element into your locker room and think everything is going to be OK?”
Here’s news for Miller. What does religion have to do with a locker room? Do religions get a vote?
And if we can trust the statistics, every team has at least one gay player. But it’s Miller’s phrase “that element” that really hurts the brain. When you say “that element” you usually mean criminals like carjackers or dope sellers or fiends who sell kidneys on the black market. So, this man is equating gays with lowlifes — “that element.”
I’m going to write something controversial now. Please bear with me. I believe the NFL is the only league in which teams have the nerve to ask the sex question. I could be wrong. I’m sure people in other sports have asked the question in a stupid moment. But NFL teams have taken it to the next level. If what we read is true, at least one team included the do-you-like-girls question as part of its formal interview, had scripted the question. “Are you good at picking up a safety blitz and, oh by the way, do you like girls?”
I believe the NFL has a sense of entitlement that’s out of this world and certainly transcends any other sport. It’s almost as if the NFL has become the unofficial religion of America. It no longer adheres to rules. It makes them. It’s possible a mentality prevails in the NFL which could lead to the impertinent and illegal questions we’ve been discussing. If I am wrong, I apologize.
On Saturday, I sent the following email to the NFL: “I’m writing a column about a team or teams asking a draft prospect or prospects about sexual preferences, and I have three questions. 1) Does the league know which team(s) made this inquiry? 2) Will the league make the team(s) name(s) public? 3) Will there be penalties for the team(s)? Thanks for your help. This is a hot-button topic, especially in the Bay Area.”
I did not hear back from the league. It’s the offseason and many people are on vacation. I understand that. This I know. The league is looking into Kasa’s allegations and does not permit questions about sexual orientation in the hiring process. It would discipline teams that violate the rule. What kind of punishment, I don’t know. How about losing a draft pick?
This topic is all about “outing.” Some team or teams want to out gays. We need to out those teams.
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