Kelly Byrd was just 4 years old when her father, Lt. Edsall Frick, was killed in combat in Vietnam.
As Byrd was cleaning out her late paternal grandmother's belongings several years ago, a letter amidst the trash caught her eye. It was from Sgt. Gary Henderson, who was with her father when he was mortally wounded in 1968.
He'd written to Frick's mother describing how much his buddy meant to him. Though the letter was five years old, Byrd took a chance and wrote back to the Knoxville, Tenn., address. Henderson had moved a few years before, but luckily a postman friend knew his new address and delivered it.
The pair corresponded and eventually met, cementing a bond started half a world away in another time.
On Thursday, dressed in his spotless Army green uniform, Henderson joined Byrd in Petaluma to pay tribute to Frick and 14 other young Petaluma men killed during the Vietnam War.
Thursday's ceremony dedicating a new Vietnam memorial monument came 44 years to the day after the original plaque was installed in 1969 in Walnut Park. The approximately 2-by-2 foot plaque includes the names of 15 Petaluma servicemen killed in the war in bas relief under a set of prayerful hands and a map of Vietnam.
“I was too young to thank them then, so 44 years later, I'd like to say thank you from the bottom of my heart,” an emotional Byrd told a crowd of about 200 people. “Thank you for not forgetting them.”
Henderson, too, got teary when he thought of Frick. He said it was important for him to be there for his buddy and Byrd, to whom he has become a father figure.
In December, someone stole the original bronze memorial tablet from its pedestal next to the park's gazebo, perhaps for its scrap metal value. The act galvanized the people who'd fought in 1969 to have their friends memorialized at a time when emotions ran high about America's involvement in the conflict.