Come over here, guys. That's what Darren Nelson said to his team on the night of Feb. 15. The night after Rincon Valley Christian's 15-game winning streak was snapped by Calistoga. His players had just finished their warm-ups at RVC's gym. Come to center court, Nelson said to the boys. Everybody here? Good. Dad, go ahead.
Standing along the gym's southeast wall, Ted Nelson hit the light switch. The gym went dark, pitch black.
"How many people do you see?" Nelson said.
Of course there were none. How many distractions? None. Nelson, 24, wanted the Eagles to know they were alone. There was no clapping. No adoration. No standing ovations. No one calling out their name. No one boasting, hey, we lost last night but we're still 24-4 and we're golden and ain't we purty.
With the gym dark, with nothing or no one to be seen and only Nelson to be heard, he dramatically made this point: We need to re-apply ourselves. We need to refocus. We need to remember high school basketball is a 32-minute game, from first tip to final buzzer. We're good but we can't just play some of the time.
"You can't just flip on the switch whenever you feel like it," Nelson said.
"And then your dad turned the lights back on?" I asked.
"Yes," Nelson said a bit sheepishly, "but don't make it sound cheesy. It was as much, if not more, about me than them. The night before was the first time I straight-up overlooked an opponent and assumed we would do OK. I promised them I would never do that again."
In fact, the night before, minutes after Calistoga had won, 51-44, Nelson held one of the shortest post-game speeches ever given by a coach. It was only two sentences.
"I'm sorry," Nelson said to the team. "I love you guys."