FORESTVILLE — Think for yourself, that's what Mark and Lori LaForge told their three kids. There will be no television, no brain-numbing electronics at our home. We live on a beautiful 80-acre ranch off Bones Road in Occidental. That's where you'll play, where you'll figure things out. Go outside. Get active. Without the distraction of technology, you'll learn what makes you happy.
"We don't use the word 'can't' in our family," said Mark, owner of an acoustical design company.
Just do it. Nike says that and so do the LaForges. Mark and Lori didn't have to tell Val twice. Their daughter absorbed their mandate as if it was a breath of air. She had to consume it and on Thursday, Val revealed exactly how literally she has practiced and lived those instructions.
Val signed an Athletic Award Scholarship Agreement to play soccer at St. Mary's College.
Val will leave Jan. 5 for the Moraga campus.
By doing so, LaForge will bypass the second half of her senior year at El Molino.
"I've always been independent," LaForge said.
LaForge's decision is an uncommon one. High school seniors don't miss their last months at school. They have climbed to the top of the high school pyramid. They made it, past all the grief they received as underclassmen, and now it's time to celebrate, if not flaunt, their cultural superiority. It's a rite of passage. It's understood and accepted.
"I never even thought of this when I was a senior," said Alexis Sciacqua, the coach of El Molino's girls and a former soccer star herself as a Sonoma State goalkeeper. "I never heard of anyone doing this. I wish I had done what Val is doing."
Yes, it was with some envy that Sciacqua looked upon LaForge's decision, which was celebrated Thursday at El Molino with the signing of the document in front of family, friends, coaches and Mike Roan, El Mo's athletic director. Even though LaForge is 17, clearly this was a young woman sure of the direction she wanted to take. She was so sure that it took her only a week to decide to take the path less traveled.
"Val will be going to a place in which she'll be the youngest person there," Sciacqua said. "She won't know anyone. She'll be away from home for the first time."
Sciacqua paused, knowing how those words were sounding, a bit dark and foreboding, like LaForge's reach was exceeding her grasp. Sciacqua quickly made a midcourse correction.
"Val will not only be one of their star players," Sciacqua said. "She'll make a name for herself before she leaves St. Mary's."
Sciacqua said it just took her and her assistant coach, Bryana Robles, the first day of fall practice to realize what kind of player LaForge was. They already knew about LaForge. Her competitive zeal and work ethic had become well-known.
"When we took this job," Sciacqua said, "we were looking for a player a lot like us. And Val was the one. She reminded us of how we played. She never backed down from a challenge. She was ready to challenge anyone at any time. She always wanted to be the best and play with the best. Her heart was as big as anyone I have ever seen. She was a pleasure to coach."