Making ends meet

  • Ramona Crinella, right, and Skip Swensen sit down for dinner in their Santa Rosa home, Sept. 19, 2012.

Despite the murmurs of an economy on the upswing, hard times still exist, and some families qualify for food aid benefits. In Sonoma County, that program is CalFresh, an electronic fund provided to recipients for the purchase of food or seed, and with a range of benefits depending on the size of the family and the income they bring in.

As of June, the average amount for food-aid benefits for Sonoma County families of varied sizes was $271 a month.

In the past 12 months, the CalFresh program has seen a 20 percent increase to their program's enrollment, exposing a surge of families who need help to make ends meet. For some, using these benefits can also mean letting go of their pride.

"People are generally not OK with accepting help," Elizabeth Graham of Redwood Community Health Coalition in Petaluma said.

As the program manager of a health and nutrition program utilized by CalFresh, Graham has become very familiar with the benefits available through the program. But nothing taught her more about it than when she started receiving the benefits herself.

"I remember feeling grateful," she said. "But I had mixed emotions. I wouldn't have been able to pay my rent without the added help. But I did experience some negative pushback from certain stores," she added, mentioning her embarrassment when at a register with a cashier not familiar with the benefits card.

"I can imagine how a family would feel really judged."

Joe Lovell, 55, and his wife Lisa Norris-Lovell of Rohnert Park used these benefits for six months along with bi-monthly help from the local food bank. To compensate for a lower food budget, they shopped strategically by opting for meat odds and ends, and in-season fruits and vegetables, also ensuring that staples like cornmeal, legumes, flour and rice were always on hand. They did "lots of crock pot cooking, soups and stews. Checked the &‘damaged packaging' and &‘discontinued' rack every time. Bought cheap coffee and made it weak."

But at no time did Lovell feel shame for needing help.

"We've helped others who were down on their luck," he said. "Things happen, circumstances change. It was just our turn for some bad times."

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