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When violence comes home

  • Students and friends remember second grade teacher Kim Conover at Meadow School in Petaluma, California, on Thursday, April 19, 2012. (BETH SCHLANKER/ The Press Democrat)

Heaps of daffodils, roses and tulips crowded the sidewalk of a Petaluma elementary school where a second-grade teacher should have returned to class last Monday.

Kim Conover knew she needed to protect herself from her estranged husband. The 43-year-old mother of four called 911 on three occasions, twice asked for restraining orders and twice began divorce proceedings. Then, as many victims of domestic violence do, she changed her mind.

Her actions showed a yearning to work things out within her family. She would not get that chance.

Double Shooting In Petaluma

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Kevin Conover, 41, walked up to his wife, the mother of their 21-month-old twins, and shot her last Sunday on a Petaluma street in broad daylight. He then turned the revolver on himself.

The shocking explosion of violence is all too familiar in Sonoma County.

Since 2005, one out of five killings in Sonoma County was committed by husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends and wives against their partners.

The people involved were couples with decades of marriage between them, young lovers and parents of young children.

They were immigrants and people born and raised in Sonoma County. They were teachers, house cleaners, landscapers, psychiatrists and technicians.

The killings left at least 13 young children without one or both of their parents.

The deaths are the most extreme outcome of domestic violence that quietly occurs every day in Sonoma County. It is a crime that cuts across social, ethnic and economic lines, presenting agonizing decisions for the people involved in the turmoil and the advocates, police, judges and prosecutors trying to stop the pervasive problem.


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