They are simple images on cue cards: a dolphin, a turtle, a star, a sun, a basketball and an elephant.
Bailey Foley recognizes only the elephant.
“The cards I have are for toddlers,” Foley’s mom, Tara Johnson, said of the exercises she does to jog her son’s memory. “Some things he just doesn’t know.”
Foley, a senior and football and baseball player at Fortuna High School in Humboldt County, was grievously injured Aug. 25 in a football game against Cardinal Newman in Santa Rosa. Near the end of the game, Foley, a 5-foot-11 linebacker and running back, went to the sideline complaining of cramps before he began having seizures.
He was taken to Santa Rosa Memorial by ambulance, where he was put into a medically induced coma. A portion of his skull was removed to help take pressure off of his swollen brain. He suffered a stroke. He dealt with pneumonia and infections before being moved Sept. 25 to UCSF Benioff Children’s Hospital in Oakland.
It was more than a month before Foley could fully speak and even now his voice is soft and raspy. In hours of therapy a day, he’s relearning simple motor skills: how to brush his teeth, how to put on a shirt, how to walk.
Johnson and her partner, Foley’s dad Sage Foley, have kept vigil at their son’s bedside for more than two months. Johnson has been home just once, on Sept. 14, when she drove a borrowed car the 200 miles to Fortuna. She stayed there for two hours before driving back to be with her son.
“How could I not be here for this?” Johnson said. “I could not leave his side right now. It’s a hard time for him. He’s learning all kinds of things. He doesn’t know the simplest things, like what a basketball is.”
And Johnson doesn’t know why. Sure, she knows her strong, athletic son collapsed during a football game, that he suffered a stroke. But she doesn’t know why all of that happened.
“When (we) first got here, they ran some bloodwork to see if it was hereditary or pre-existing” or blood vessel-related, she said. “He’s never had anything wrong with him or random nose bleeds or anything. They are stumped. They really think if it was a hard-impact kind of thing, it would have happened sooner.”
Foley made it to the sideline under his own power before he complained of cramps and collapsed. Dehydration? A hit to the liver? They’ve all been discussed, she said.
“I do want to know,” she said. “It kind of sounds like it may be an unknown. They can’t say, ‘Yes, this is exactly what happened.’”
Despite the unknowns and despite mounting evidence about the dangers of the sport, Johnson said she doesn’t blame football for what happened to her son.
“No, not at all,” she said. “We still watch football. We continue to listen to his team on an app on my phone.”
And despite seeing her son having to relearn some of the most basic skills, Johnson sees reason to be encouraged every day. Like when Bailey’s cousin Max visited recently.
“The last time he was here, he did this old handshake and he remembered that,” she said. “At the end he snapped his fingers and we were like, ‘Yay.’”
A GoFundMe page has been set up to help with Bailey Foley’s medical expenses. To donate, go here.