Alabama man dies after being turned away from 43 hospitals as COVID-19 packs ICUs, family says
When Ray DeMonia was having a cardiac emergency last month, his Alabama family waited anxiously for a nearby hospital with available space in its intensive care unit.
But in a state where coronavirus infections and unvaccinated patients have overwhelmed hospitals in recent months, finding an available ICU bed was an ordeal. It was so difficult, his family wrote this month, that the hospital in his hometown of Cullman, Ala., contacted 43 others in three states - and all were unable to give him the care he needed.
DeMonia, who was eventually transferred to a Mississippi hospital about 200 miles away, died at 73 on Sept. 1 - three days shy of his birthday.
Raven DeMonia, his daughter, told The Washington Post on Sunday that it was "shocking" when the family was told that dozens of ICUs were unable to treat her father.
"It was like, 'What do you mean?' " she said when she found out her father was being airlifted to a Mississippi hospital. "I never thought this would happen to us."
Now, in DeMonia's obituary, his family is urging those who remain unvaccinated to get immunized to help hospitals that have been pushed to their limits and struggling to treat emergencies not related to the pandemic. His daughter told The Post he was vaccinated against the coronavirus.
"In honor of Ray, please get vaccinated if you have not, in an effort to free up resources for non COVID related emergencies," the family wrote. "He would not want any other family to go through what his did."
Jennifer Malone, a spokeswoman for Cullman Regional Medical Center, confirmed to The Post that Ray DeMonia was "a patient in our care and was transferred to a different facility." She declined to offer specifics of his situation, citing privacy reasons.
"The level of care he required was not available at Cullman Regional," Malone said.
DeMonia's case comes as Alabama hospitals grapple with a lack of ICU resources amid a surge in patients - many of whom are unvaccinated. Scott Harris, head of the Alabama Department of Public Health, said Friday that while the state's increase in hospitalizations appears to have stabilized, there are still more patients who need ICU care than there are available beds.
"We continue to have a real crisis in Alabama with our ICU bed capacity," Harris said at a news conference, adding that there were about 60 more ICU patients than there were open beds in the state last week.
Nearly 2,800 people in the state were hospitalized with COVID-19 on Sunday, including 768 in the ICU, according to data compiled by The Washington Post. The number of total hospitalizations over a seven-day average decreased by 4% compared with the previous period. Although Alabama is averaging 3,641 new infections a day, that is also an improvement compared with its latest seven-day average for daily cases.
Vaccinations are also up, but with just 40% of residents fully immunized, Alabama still has the fourth-lowest vaccination rate among all states - ahead of Idaho, West Virginia and Wyoming, according to tracking by The Post.
After President Joe Biden promised last week to use his power to circumvent the actions of Republican governors and elected officials who were "undermining" pandemic-relief efforts, Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey, R, challenged the president to "bring it on." Ivey, who has pushed for the unvaccinated to get their shots but said the state would never mandate it, allocated $12 million in federal funding this month to bring travel nurses to Alabama hospitals experiencing staffing shortages, such as the ones that DeMonia's family encountered.
Born on Sept. 4, 1947, DeMonia followed his father's path in appreciating, finding and selling antiques at furniture auctions, according to the Cullman Times. When he married his wife, Patricia, in 1972, he joked to the newspaper that he "had to indoctrinate her into antiques." He would eventually also become an auctioneer, a career in which his jovial spirit and recognizable calls - "Hey, bidda, bidda, bidda!" - would make him a decades-long community stalwart in Cullman, 50 miles north of Birmingham.
As the owner of DeMonia's Antiques and Auctions for about 40 years, he would go as far as Chicago or New Jersey if it meant there was a good find, his daughter said. He once found a painting by French impressionist Claude Monet in an estate sale that eventually sold at an auction in Huntsville for $38,000.
"Not many people can say they've held a Monet," he told the Times.
Raven DeMonia, 38, of Raleigh recalled how he loved Alabama Crimson Tide football and the music of Kiss, the Allman Brothers Band and the Eagles. She reveled in watching "Antiques Roadshow" with her father, saying he treated it like she approached "Jeopardy!" and would nail the pricing estimates.