The horrific crash on a city street made news, and no doubt made people grimace and clutch their hearts, everywhere in Lithuania.
It happened the Feb. 12, 2000, in the capital, Vilnius. A car pushed to perhaps 100 mph by the young man at the wheel struck a pole and tore the vehicle in two. Ejected, the driver may have been dead before he hit the pavement.
The impact also ripped his girlfriend from the passenger seat. She was alive, though barely, when rescuers ran to her. As she’d catapulted from the jagged wreckage, both of her legs were severed above the knees.
That was Inga Lizdenyte, 22 years old and until that wintry night the busy, contented manager of the business lounge at Vilnius International Airport.
She came around to crushing news that dribbled in like the fluids in the IVs. She’d lost not only her boyfriend — who’d evidently been racing another car — but also her legs and the use of her left arm.
Even once she’d healed substantially, she could not so much as roll herself over to seek a more comfortable position in bed.
“I hated it so much,” recalls Lizdenyte (liz den EAT ah). “I hated to be so dependent. I was able only to open and close my eyes. I was depressed, deeply, for three years.”
Today, this is her life: Now 37, she rents an apartment in Santa Rosa and has devised ways to leverage, pivot, grip, balance, bounce, improvise, do whatever she needs to do, without assistance.
She navigates public buses and uses her zippy, mechanized wheelchair to get where she wants to go. She’s also a valued staff member at downtown’s Disability Services and Legal Center.
“She screams perseverance without saying a word,” said the nonprofit’s chief, Adam Brown. He said people with disabilities come in looking for help with housing or other challenges to living independently, and they’re astonished to meet Lizdenyte and learn what she has accomplished.
Frequently, Brown said, merely witnessing this woman gives them “a different outlook to what’s possible.”
Apart from her day job as the agency’s part-time volunteer and public relations coordinator, Lizdenyte is writing a book that’s part autobiography, part self-help guide and part Christian testimony. She appears at churches and other venues as a motivational speaker and makes herself available as a life coach.
“I’m happier now than before the accident,” she declared.
How she got from Vilnius to Santa Rosa is quite a story, one that features a major supporting role by a well-known and charitable expert in the making and fitting of artificial limbs.
He is Jon Batzdorff, and he was operating Sierra Orthopedic Laboratory in Santa Rosa when he received an email from Lizdenyte early in 2002.
By that time, the Lithuanian had undergone several surgeries and been fitted with a pair of prosthetic legs. She said she was absolutely determined to walk again, but the prostheses hurt terribly — and she was told that when she wore them it was simply impossible for her to sit.
She recalls thinking that in more technologically advanced parts of the world, there had to be artificial legs that didn’t cause excruciating pain, and that would allow the wearer to sit and then stand. She searched the Internet for what looked to be leading prosthetists in the U.S. and Germany, and she emailed three of them.