Wineries in Sonoma County that welcome families with kids
Without naming names, there are more than a few wineries that frown upon kids on the premises. You can tell by the not-so-subtle cringe from a pourer or tasting room manager that reads, “You couldn’t find a babysitter?” It’s almost the same look you get when walking through a casino with kids.
“I’ve definitely seen ‘that look’ many times,” says Shana Bull, mother of a 1½-year-old toddler. By the time he was 1, Ryeson had been to over 50 wineries, breweries “and two cider places.”
“I like wineries that aren’t pretentious,” she says. It’s a crucial part of her job as writer, mom blogger and social media influencer to get out to Sonoma County events, whether concerts or brewery openings or wine festivals.
“My entire life is tag-teaming, with my husband watching for awhile and then taking turns. Literally, I think we do say, ‘tag - you’re it.’”
Over the past decade, more and more wineries have begun catering to the total family experience. Sometimes all it takes is a “kids area” decked out with homemade wine-cork boats, like the one at Gundlach Bundschu’s annual Huichica Music Festival. Or even a hot dog cart at a Red Car rosé release. Or a pool to cool off in at Francis Ford Coppola Winery.
Other times, it’s a relaxed spread like the Sunday jug-wine picnics at Preston Farm and Winery or the goats and chickens at Truett Hurst or the Wednesday night music and food trucks at Paradise Ridge Winery.
With a little strategy and a designated driver, it’s an easy diversion that doesn’t beg for a babysitter. And it means that Mom and Dad can finally unwind and partake in one of their favorite pastimes before they had kids.
“I remember a conversation we had at the marketing committee level about a year and a half ago,” says Ann Petersen, executive director of Winegrowers of Dry Creek Valley. “Everyone was saying that kids and families at wineries was really inevitable and that rather than fighting it, they were beginning to embrace it - even if it wasn’t actually being said in a public way.”
After Larson Family Winery co-owner Becky Larson had twin boys in the early 2000s, “our friends that had kids would come to town and we would go wine tasting and worry about the kids kicking up the perfectly immaculate gravel at different wineries.”
Their solution: Driving an RV from winery to winery “and someone would wait in the motor home with the kids while the others went wine tasting.”
It was a creative solution, but one that is no longer necessary. Tapping into a rich family tradition that goes back five generations, Larson says the winery saw a niche opportunity in creating “a place that was family-friendly.” Weekend wine tastings at the former Carneros rodeo ring have evolved into a giant family picnic, with farm animals, coloring tables, sidewalk chalk, a large field to roam or ride wagons and tractors - all topped off with juice for the kids and picnic tables.
“Our customers and members have watched our family grow up, and we have enjoyed watching theirs,” says Larson.
At Paradise Ridge Winery, a larger-than-life interactive sculpture garden has entertained several generations of kids and now inspires thousands of family Instagram moments.
“Anybody who walks through it feels like a kid,” says co-owner Sonia Byck-Barwick. “When you have kids, you pick up their energy.”
Installing the 4-acre exhibition in the mid-1990s, winery founder Walter Byck collaborates with the Voight Family Sculpture Foundation to bring in a rotating cast of world-famous sculptures. Today, the outdoor gallery is named Marijke’s Grove, after his late wife Marijke Hoenselaars.
“I think interacting with art is very important for kids because often it’s something they’re taught to look at it, but they can’t touch,” says his daughter, Sonia Byck-Barwick. “Now they can walk through them and look at them from many different perspectives.”
Some of the pieces are wind-powered; others make noise. And David Best’s Temple of Remembrance offers a sanctuary filled with prayer flags where visitors can write a note to someone they’ve lost.
“We always encourage parents to take the kids down to the sculpture grove first,” says Byck-Barwick. “Let them run around and get a little tired and then they’re willing to wait for that half-hour or 45 minutes of tasting.”
To help pass the time, there are coloring books in the tasting room and a picnic area nearby. But occasionally she has to point out what might seem obvious to most parents. “Some people will come drink wine and relax and let their kids run. When they do that, it can distract from other tasters. We love having kids, but they still have to be watched.”
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