Anti-trans policies draw scrutiny after 16-year-old’s death in Oklahoma
A 16-year-old student in a small Oklahoma town outside Tulsa died after what police said was a “physical altercation” in a high school bathroom, drawing outrage from gay and transgender rights groups who said the student was attacked because of their gender identity.
The student, Nex Benedict, who often used the pronouns they and them, told relatives that they did not see themselves as strictly male or female. Under an Oklahoma law passed in 2022, students must use the bathrooms that align with their birth gender.
As of Wednesday afternoon, no arrests had been made in connection with the altercation, which occurred Feb. 7 in a girls’ bathroom at Owasso High School. Police said the case was still under investigation.
The apparent severity of the altercation, and the death of the student a day later, has focused national attention on how it is being handled by school officials and law enforcement.
The Owasso Police Department said in a statement Tuesday that no report had been made about the incident until after the injured student was taken to a hospital by relatives later the same day. At that point, a school resource officer went to the hospital, police said in their statement. The student was discharged and went home, but was rushed back to the hospital by Owasso fire department medics the next day, and died there, police said.
“It is not known at this time if the death is related to the incident at the school or not,” the statement said.
On Wednesday, police said in a new statement that preliminary information from the medical examiner, based on a complete autopsy, “indicated that the decedent did not die as a result of trauma.” The statement did not suggest a cause of death, citing further pending tests including toxicology.
No other student was deemed to be in need of outside medical attention after the incident, the school said in a statement.
The school district issued a statement Tuesday suggesting there had been “speculation and misinformation” about the circumstances surrounding the altercation, which it said lasted less than two minutes before being broken up by other students “along with a staff member who was supervising outside of the restroom.” The school said that all the students involved “walked under their own power to the assistant principal’s office and nurse’s office.”
The school district said that parents and guardians of the students were given the option to file a police report after they were notified about the altercation, and added that any student who is found to have been involved “will receive disciplinary consequences.”
The district did not say what discipline was imposed.
A spokesperson for the school district, Jordan Korphage, said more detail could not be provided because of privacy laws, nor could the district provide information about any past reports of bullying against Nex.
“Nex did not see themselves as male or female,” Sue Benedict, a grandmother of Nex, told The Independent. “Nex saw themselves right down the middle. I was still learning about it, Nex was teaching me that.”
At a modest home in Owasso, a man who identified himself as Nex’s father said the family remained in mourning and declined to comment on the school’s handling of the incident. “We are grieving parents,” he said.
An online death notice described Nex, using their birth name, as a young person who loved nature, drawing and playing the video games Ark and Minecraft.
Melanie Atwood, 51, a neighbor two doors down from the family, said she remembered Nex as a young child who made Atwood cookies and liked to stop by to visit her cats. “It’s just terrible,” Atwood said.
Benedict said that after the altercation at the school, she was told that Nex had been suspended for two weeks. After coming home from the initial visit to the hospital, she said, Nex complained of a sore head. The next day, Nex collapsed at home and was rushed to the hospital, she said.
The family’s lawyers released a statement Wednesday saying Nex had been “attacked and assaulted in a bathroom by a group of other students,” and added that the Benedicts were praying for “meaningful change wherein bullying is taken seriously and no family has to deal with another preventable tragedy.”
The death renewed scrutiny of anti-transgender laws passed in the state and rhetoric by Oklahoma officials, including the state superintendent for education, Ryan Walters, whose agency has been forceful in trying to bar what it calls “radical gender theory” in schools.
“It’s dangerous,” Walters said in a video made by the agency last year. “It puts our girls in jeopardy.”